for the host

Tv Dinner Food GIF

Because showing up empty-handed is the ultimate faux pas, babe. A host gift isn’t just a polite gesture—it’s your way of saying, “Thanks for busting your ass to make this night amazing!” It’s a small but mighty move that says you appreciate the vibe they’ve curated, whether it’s a five-course feast or just pizza and good company.


It’s not about being fancy; it’s about showing you’re not a clueless freeloader. A thoughtful gift is your chance to say, “I’ve got taste, I’ve got gratitude, and yeah, I’m the kind of guest you actually want to invite back.” Now go forth and bring the damn bottle of wine—or whatever else screams you.

this cutting board

I love this cutting board. I may actually have an irrational love of this cutting board. It’s practical. It’s colorful. It’s well-made. It’s just one of my favorite things, and I know your future host will feel the same way.

a cute plant

Are plants as a gift cliche? If so, that’s a world I refuse to live in. Now the only caveat here is that if they can’t keep a fake plant alive, then definitely don’t give them a real one.

w & w

I knew a guy that would tell people that no one rides for free, and they can pay in gas, cash or ass. You don’t need to bring ass, cash or gas, but we’ll never turn down a little grass. This lighter is a perfect companion. If you live in a grass-free part of the world, then wine will be just fine.

share a vice

I love a chic canister. You can put dog treats, snacks, candy, cookies, marbles, cash, cotton balls, or actual secrets in here. The vice collection from Jonathan Adler holds a special place in my heart and on my counter.

cute little cards

so much ice can be broken over a game of cards. keeping up a poker face while you learn more about your friends is exactly the warm welcome your host is betting on

something salty

if the host is a chef (or aspiring chef ), this is such a fun gift. surely they’ll find something this pairs well with, and if you don’t think they will, may we suggest finding something else on the list that’s more…in their wheelhouse.

some S&Ps

Calling all the basic bitches!! Calling all the basic bitches!! Let’s go thrifting. So, there’s no link for this one, but that’s part of the fun. Get out there and thrift! It can be an antique store or a local donation store, either way just find something fun! If all else fails, check eBay, they have loads of the cutest salt and pepper shakers that you’ve ever seen.

something to SERVE

what do I even say here? just look at this. dyed alabaster makes a big impact here, and what host would turn this down.

A HAND(soap)

I love the idea of a beautiful hand soap for the kitchen. bathrooms get all the attention. this hand soap looks great, smells great, and feels great. the host (and their hands) will thank you!

MAGNETS, no seriously

stick with me…I love the idea of giving magnets. These are cute and simple, but never underestimate the power of an alphabet magnet. kids and adults alike will love spelling out new words they’ve learned…or some old four letter favorites. it might seem silly, but this is truly an unforgettable gift.

seasonal surprises

a summer splurge

let’s address the elephant in the room. these are expensive. are they worth it? that’s for you to decide. but this is a fun, unique way to ring in the start of summer..honestly, the hardest part is getting them before they sell out. this may be one of those things that you get just for you, but if you really like the host, get one for them too.

luxurious linens

I mean, Happy Holidays, dolls. well…Merry Christmas in this case. spread some Christmas cheer with these gorgeous linens. when in doubt, 8 is always a good number, but if you’ve been there before, bring enough to accommodate the number of seats they have at their table

something HUNG

to DIY or buy, that is the question. lucky for you there is no wrong answer. eventually, we may put up some DIY guides, but until then, Pinterest or your local florist is the best answer.